{"id":1023,"date":"2012-09-23T13:08:08","date_gmt":"2012-09-23T18:08:08","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.litschers.com\/?p=1023"},"modified":"2014-01-20T13:44:54","modified_gmt":"2014-01-20T19:44:54","slug":"social-media-has-ruined-the-family-blog","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.litschers.com\/updates\/2012\/09\/23\/social-media-has-ruined-the-family-blog\/","title":{"rendered":"Social Media Has Ruined the Family Blog"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong>(or why it seems we don&#8217;t post any updates to Litschers.com)<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Good morning. \u00a0I was just thinking about how much has changed in our adoption process over the last few months, and that I should really post an update here. \u00a0So, I logged in and realized that the last time (and only!) time I wrote about the adoption was at Christmas. \u00a0Yikes. \u00a0When we initially started this website (right before we got married) we did it for two reasons: 1) to give ourselves a sweet email address that we would never have to change and, 2) to keep our family and friends updated with what was going on in our lives, since we lived so far from where we grew up. \u00a0Well, I joined Facebook in 2007 (thanks,\u00a0<a title=\"Facebook Timeline\" href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/about\/timeline\">Timeline<\/a>, for letting me know) and shortly after that the\u00a0frequency of our posts slowed down to nil. \u00a0Just about all of our family and friends have joined Facebook since then and, alas, <a title=\"Litschers.com\" href=\"http:\/\/www.litschers.com\">Litschers.com<\/a> has been all but abandoned.<\/p>\n<p>However, where popular social media often fails is providing a place for long-form update \u00a0of things that matter. \u00a0So that&#8217;s what I hope to do a little more consistently here. \u00a0All that to say: here&#8217;s an update of things that matter, in a little bit of a longer-form. (Yes, I&#8217;m blaming social media for my personal failure to blog.)<\/p>\n<p>The biggest news is that we do have an update on our\u00a0<a title=\"Merry Christmas!\" href=\"http:\/\/www.litschers.com\/2011\/12\/25\/merry-christmas-3\/\" target=\"_blank\">adoption journey<\/a>. \u00a0After much prayer and consultation, we have switched our adoptive country from Ethiopia to Uganda. \u00a0The very long story short is that our adoption agency (<a title=\"Bethany Christian Services\" href=\"http:\/\/www.bethany.org\/\" target=\"_blank\">Bethany Christian Services<\/a>) has started a pilot program in Uganda and had openings for a dozen or so families to join it. \u00a0We were expecting to have wait 2-3 years in Ethiopia and we will probably have our Ugandan child home by March (or even sooner)! \u00a0We did have to redo all of our paperwork though, and since we did this at my busiest time of year, Renee really did it all.<\/p>\n<figure style=\"width: 403px\" class=\"wp-caption alignleft\"><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\" \" title=\"Our dossier!\" alt=\"Our dossier!\" src=\"https:\/\/sphotos-a.xx.fbcdn.net\/hphotos-ash4\/422807_10151053631692057_71246822_n.jpg\" width=\"403\" height=\"302\" \/><figcaption class=\"wp-caption-text\">Our dossier!<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>So, after getting our home study amended, all of our documents re-signed, everything notarized, \u00a0county authenticated, and then state sealed, we are officially waiting.<\/p>\n<p>We have had to make a bit of a mind-shift as well&#8211;we had learned much about Ethiopian and its culture, had figured the child will probably be 2-3 years old when we traveled to bring him or her home, and I thought I&#8217;d be done with my Ed.D. \u00a0Now we&#8217;re learning about Uganda (the Pearl of Africa), may have an infant (under 12 months), and I will be nowhere near done with school. \u00a0(We&#8217;ve also formally requested a girl, and expect to get one. \u00a0So weird to think about &#8220;my daughter&#8221;!!!) Since we were expecting to have 2-3 years of preparing, saving, and raising money to pay the rest of our fees, we are also trusting that the money will come through too.<\/p>\n<p>We are so thankful for the support of our <a title=\"Cornerstone Community Church\" href=\"http:\/\/cccjackson.org\" target=\"_blank\">church<\/a>. \u00a0There are two other families who are in the process of adopting, and our church has rallied around us as we&#8217;ve raised money through yard sales and cookbook sales. \u00a0(If you are interested in purchasing a cookbook to help us all, they are $15, $20 if it needs to be shipped, and has almost 300 fantastic recipes in it! Just send me an email at <a href=\"mailto:ken@litschers.com\" target=\"_blank\">ken@litschers.com<\/a>.) It has been such a blessing to have their support and love.<\/p>\n<p>If you would, could you please pray for us for the following things?<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>For our daughter in Uganda: that she is being cared for and protected during such a vulnerable time of life. \u00a0That she will bond with and attach to us quickly.<\/li>\n<li>For our daughter&#8217;s birth family: as excited as we are to grow our family through adoption, it is a stark reminder that things are not as they should be. Her family, through death, illness, poverty, or any number of reasons, is unable to care for her, and we will always grieve for her and for them.<\/li>\n<li>For Renee and I as we prepare: 4 kids &#8211; YIKES! A daughter &#8211; YIKES! Wisdom as we walk through parenting an\u00a0orphan.<\/li>\n<li>For our\u00a0biological\u00a0kids: as they adjust to having parents gone for a few weeks when we travel (Gabe has asked me more than once when I leave for work if I was going to Uganda). For their patience as we care for a new child. For\u00a0their\u00a0adjustment as we will probably have to parent (and discipline) our daughter differently.<\/li>\n<li>For our finances: we are fully trusting that God will provide &#8211; and He has so far. \u00a0But we will have some big bills soon, along with our travel costs. \u00a0We have applied for a matching grant (if people donate towards it, they will match the donation) and hope to hear back soon. \u00a0We are also selling those cookbooks and I am making some cedar Adirondack chairs to try to sell locally.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<div>So, that&#8217;s the big update. \u00a0The boys are doing great &#8211; Jonathan (7) started 2nd grade and loves it. \u00a0Gabe (4) is still at home and is a big help around the house. Gideon will be 2 on November 1st, doesn&#8217;t stop talking or singing, and is a little bit of a stinker (in a fun, but tiring, way). \u00a0Pictures below!<\/div>\n<div><\/div>\n<div>(Don&#8217;t forget to friend <a href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/renee.litscher\">Renee<\/a> and <a href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/ken.litscher\">me<\/a> on Facebook, or follow <a href=\"http:\/\/twitter.com\/kenlitscher\">me<\/a> on Twitter!)<\/div>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<figure style=\"width: 461px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"  \" title=\"Adoption Yard Sale!\" alt=\"Adoption Yard Sale!\" src=\"https:\/\/sphotos-a.xx.fbcdn.net\/hphotos-snc6\/246601_10151148807583770_1447496156_n.jpg\" width=\"461\" height=\"306\" \/><figcaption class=\"wp-caption-text\">Adoption Yard Sale!<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<figure style=\"width: 461px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"  \" title=\"Adoption Yard Sale Families\" alt=\"Adoption Yard Sale Families\" src=\"https:\/\/sphotos-a.xx.fbcdn.net\/hphotos-ash4\/400523_10151148768303770_2102148592_n.jpg\" width=\"461\" height=\"306\" \/><figcaption class=\"wp-caption-text\">Adoption Yard Sale Families<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<figure style=\"width: 461px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"  \" title=\"Move-in Weekend\" alt=\"Move-in Weekend\" src=\"https:\/\/sphotos-b.xx.fbcdn.net\/hphotos-snc7\/486444_10151022261752057_1069158285_n.jpg\" width=\"461\" height=\"346\" \/><figcaption class=\"wp-caption-text\">Move-in Weekend<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<figure style=\"width: 346px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"  \" title=\"First Day of 2nd Grade\" alt=\"First Day of 2nd Grade\" src=\"https:\/\/sphotos-a.xx.fbcdn.net\/hphotos-prn1\/542469_10151013221982057_1935913056_n.jpg\" width=\"346\" height=\"461\" \/><figcaption class=\"wp-caption-text\">First Day of 2nd Grade<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<figure style=\"width: 298px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"https:\/\/sphotos-a.xx.fbcdn.net\/hphotos-ash4\/292941_620468091622_2005290799_n.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"  \" title=\"Adoption Cookbook\" alt=\"Adoption Cookbook - $15\" src=\"https:\/\/sphotos-a.xx.fbcdn.net\/hphotos-ash4\/292941_620468091622_2005290799_n.jpg\" width=\"298\" height=\"461\" \/><\/a><figcaption class=\"wp-caption-text\">Adoption Cookbook &#8211; $15<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<figure id=\"attachment_1024\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-1024\" style=\"width: 400px\" class=\"wp-caption aligncenter\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.litschers.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/09\/chairs.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" class=\"size-medium wp-image-1024 \" title=\"Adirondack Chairs - $100 apiece\" alt=\"Adirondack Chairs - $100 apiece\" src=\"http:\/\/www.litschers.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/09\/chairs-400x300.jpg\" width=\"400\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.litschers.com\/updates\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/09\/chairs-400x300.jpg 400w, https:\/\/www.litschers.com\/updates\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/09\/chairs.jpg 800w\" sizes=\"(max-width: 400px) 100vw, 400px\" \/><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-1024\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">`Adirondack Chairs &#8211; $110 apiece<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>(or why it seems we don&#8217;t post any updates to Litschers.com) Good morning. \u00a0I was just thinking about how much has changed in our adoption process over the last few months, and that I should really post an update here. \u00a0So, I logged in and realized that the last time (and only!) time I wrote &hellip; 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